Facebook Face-off

So I made my facebook private... AGAIN.

If I could figure out how to make this private, I would do so, as well. In fact, I will probably have to delete this blog and start a new one with a secret link and here is why....

Apparently people look at my facebook (and blog) and report back to my ex. Some of these people have never even met me and I do not even know they existed, but they look at my page, nonetheless. And they look at it a lot. And they read into it things they should not. Then they call the ex and confront him and repeat things and he calls me and tells me and quite frankly, I am tired of hearing about it.

But I continue to ask him (and myself) this question... "What kind of woman will look at a complete strangers facebook, then call a man and confront him about what she sees?" That makes them look like a total creeper. Wouldnt it be better to keep your trap shut so...

#1. You wouldnt look ridiculous in the eyes of this man; and

#2. You can continue to look?

Mike and I have a good relationship. In fact, we are the exception when it comes to divorced people. We genuinely like each other and talk on a daily basis. He is going to repeat to me the idiotic things these "women" say. I don't know why it bothers me. But today, the creepiness just pushed me over the public facebook edge.

And Im sure everyone wonders why I am always going on about Nakia Mitchell, but something about an adult woman acting so desperate just rubs me the wrong way. The fact that she openly pursued a married man while she was married urks me (it doesnt help that that married man was my husband at the time.) It also bothers me that she is so nonchalant about it. When I confronted her for naming her child Jayden (which is my sons name) instead of being ashamed, she challenged my to a dual! Yes, thats right, she told me to come over to her house and fight her. In her yard. Because I questioned her. HELLO? I found out you have been sleeping with my ex BEFORE HE WAS MY EX, I know you have brought your kid around my children. I know that you named your baby my child's name and you are trying to trick Mike into thinking your kids are his... I have every right to ask questions! I am not going to let my kids get tangled up in that. And Im sure as heck not gonna let her try to move in on my child support! Hello!

Did I mention she told me to "Let Mike move on." I could care less if Mike moves on... unless it is with her and I will tell you why... She. Is. Married. And, even better... Her husband is a COP! A cop that is already a little unstable, from what I understand. Hello, he carries a gun.

I also found out that she has alleged her oldest son, Brandon, is Mikes. Which is ludicrous. Mike won't even entertain such nonesense. But for her to stoop to that level in order to make him talk to her is really creepy on her part. Such desperation. She is willing to totally screw up her kids life to try to get a man to pay attention to her. Its just plain disgusting. Besides, if she thinks

#1 that Mike will want her because of it or;

#2 that she is gonna cut into my child support

Shes got another thing coming. Shannon already thought having a kid would "trap him" and you see where that got her... and that child really was his. Pinning an 18 year old on him REALLY isn't going to work.

Shes a sad, pathetic person. And she doesnt need to look at my facebook.

*I will clarify, Nakia is not the only person that is looking at my page and reporting back. Their are others. And they don't need to see my page, either. If you are guilty of this and think it could be you I am reffering too, you are probably right. And, yes, I know who you are!